the123champ's blog
Str8... yea, not joking!
Get asked a lot why I’m on a “gay” sight looking to wrestle “IF” I’m “really” a straight guy. First and foremost, because I LOVE to wrestle!! There’s something very primal about it and the competitive gratification is unmatched! To take another man and basically force him to acknowledge your superiority is completely intoxicating to me! Yes, I can understand why this is a physical turn-on for a gay man, but for me… think of it as mental high. There has never been and never will be anything sexual before or after with my opponent. Yea, I know I’m pressed so close to another man you could put a sheet of paper between us, but to me that’s just the sport.
Don’t get me wrong though, it’s not just the competition. I also enjoy all the friends I’ve made, because I know it takes mutual respect to wrestle me. I like to think I’m a fun guy to wrestle. Yes, I’m out to win, but I’m also out to have fun, just not in a sexual way. I’m prone to talking some trash in my victim’s ear, “Come on you lil puss, you gonna let a str8 guy school you like this?” and I’ve been known to count “1 – 2 -…” pull him back up and say, “No, no, no… I’m not done working you over, boi!” But make no mistake, IF I wrestle you, it’s because you’ve won my trust. Basically, I’m not going to bash your life choices, and I ask for that same level of respect in return.
untouchable1 (12)
3/20/2017 9:24 PMThis isn't a gay site.
It's a wrestling website, which a lot of gay men are on.
If people are that silly to question your sexuality, maybe they should re read the site.
Vanman (87 )
3/20/2017 10:08 PM(In reply to this)
I'm also part of the minority on this site that are straight.
Over the last few years I've wrestled loads of men and they have in my mind been just that other men.
Some people though do take a different view, last week someone told me this is a site about a wrestling fetish. That is rubbish.
Thanks for your support of the minority.
the123champ (25)
3/21/2017 1:02 AM(In reply to this)
I agree! Only reporting what has been said to me.
Spruceman (55 )
3/21/2017 2:10 AM(In reply to this)
One distinct advantage I find about straight guys is that the probability the time spent will actually be spent wrestling is far higher than average. Not that I'm denigrating those other "playful" activities; but finding someone to wrestle me can take weeks, even months. I don't want to waste it on somebody who comes over exclusively to engage in activity which I could garner in an hour's time on various Internet sites.
hephaestion2014 (47)
3/21/2017 2:26 AM(In reply to this)
It's funny. On this site I tend to not think of gay/straight but more
Sport/erotic
There'll be those who there's a possibility of maybe an erotic wrestle and those who you can just have a good old undistracted wrestling match with - the later of course includes straight guys plus - shock horror- gay guys who don't do erotic too.
There was a very brief period when due to a budding relationship i was only wrestling and like yourselves was questioned what I was doing on this site.
Don't think of yourselves as straight. Think of yourselves as the sporty wrestlers, you're not such a minority then :)
the123champ (25)
3/21/2017 2:46 AM(In reply to this)
😆 nice! I appreciate that!
the123champ (25)
6/22/2018 4:46 AM(In reply to this)
thanks. I'm just reporting what guys have said to me.
the123champ (25)
7/01/2019 3:48 AM(In reply to this)
Well thank you!!
pinningmuscle (0)
3/20/2017 10:26 PMI agree. This is a wrestling site and I, like many men, don't need to have the match end up in something sexual.
As long as you are upfront and manage expectations, it's all good!
the123champ (25)
11/29/2017 5:37 AM(In reply to this)
In that case... BRING IT ON!
Just Dan (7)
11/29/2017 12:55 PM(In reply to this)
I'd love to 123Champ. One of the Washington DC locals (Spruceman) recently invited me to join him and a new guy who he was introducing to wrestling for essentially the first time. The new guy also identifies himself as straight. The day turned out to be among the most pleasant and memorable ones I've had in months. I think they both enjoyed it a lot as well. I'm looking forward to the next one, perhaps with you.
Welpe (8 )
3/21/2017 1:06 AMGooood comment. Thumbsup! :)
the123champ (25)
6/22/2018 4:48 AM(In reply to this)
thank you very much. I appreciate it.
kenjcc (0)
3/21/2017 4:52 AMBi-sexual here. I have done 2 guys at once. Or is that tri-sexual?
Vanman (87 )
3/21/2017 6:25 AM(In reply to this)
That's verging on tag!
Darksteel (10)
3/21/2017 2:40 PMOmg there are straight people on this site!?!?!?!? Jk
the123champ (25)
3/21/2017 3:18 PM(In reply to this)
Lol... well, at least one
Vanman (87 )
3/21/2017 3:22 PM(In reply to this)
We get everywhere!
😉
Darksteel (10)
3/21/2017 3:36 PM(In reply to this)
lol
Just be honest about your limits. Your sexuality does not matter. You do not need anyone's approval.
Have fun
JasonFL (23)
3/21/2017 2:54 PMAretha was right......
R.....E....S....P.....E......C.....T
Darksteel (10)
3/21/2017 2:58 PM(In reply to this)
Sadly for some respect is hard.
the123champ (25)
3/21/2017 5:32 PM(In reply to this)
Too funny!
Spruceman (55 )
3/21/2017 3:11 PMAs long as he is of legal age, clean, sane, 'n' sober, I'll wrestle any man – straight, gay, bi, a. Yet to refuse any man here, or elsewhere on the Internet, who want to happen my way in real space-time to wrestle :)
turnbuckl (38)
3/21/2017 5:48 PMThis site is solely geared to those of us who love to fight whether it be wrestling, brawling, boxing......it is a fetish for many and sport for others. I have wrestled "str8" and married men who get off sexually after or during the match and i have wrestled gay men who aren't into the erotic aspect. There is room for everyone because we share the same interests. You just have to be honest when setting up a match so there is no disappointment when you actually meet. And we all share the frustration of the distance thing with those we want to battle. Great site!
the123champ (25)
6/22/2018 4:49 AM(In reply to this)
Very true! I do like this sight much better than another one.
bogeyedmonk (1 )
3/25/2017 6:18 AMI have not had any comments. I have had wrestles with gay men,and they want to wrestle me. I have been asked if I am gay. When I reply I say NO, but I am here to wrestle so if you dont mind wrestling a straight guy then fine no problem.
There are different sexual orientations on here and thats fine, lets not forget we are ALL here because we like combat in whatever form.
Being st8 or gay should not be an issue
the123champ (25)
3/25/2017 12:30 PM(In reply to this)
I agree... but doesn't always happen.
Just Dan (7)
3/26/2017 5:30 AMI think of myself as straight or mostly so. In recent years the lines along the straight/not straight continuum have blurred some. When I meet to wrestle my objective is to wrestle and usually so is the other guy's. None the less wrestling is inherently erotic with all that close contact and it often visibly shows. I see no harm in that.