Stevie's blog

Loser of a Cockfight

Sex between a true bottom and a true top is a sacral act. It depends both on the sameness (maleness) of both partners, as well as, and more importantly, their difference (you can't have unity without difference or diversity). A top's sexuality is masculine: expanding, entering, exploring, conquering, reaching outside itself, penetrating, discovering. A bottom's sexuality is feminine: accommodating, drawing-in, opening, submitting, beckoning, receiving, being-discovered. The loser of the fight must embrace the role of the feminine, as he has been humiliated by his rival in the fight.

The loser of the cockfight willingly sacrifices his maleness to the top by spreading his legs and allowing the top to penetrate him and conquer him internally. This receptivity, submission, accommodation is very feminine. But it is precisely *as a male* that the loser performs this feminine act. It is as a male and only as a male that he is able to give his maleness as an offering to his rival. It is very free, even though it is very natural. The loser, having given himself entirely to the winner, then receives from the victor the top’s own maleness, which moves inside him and ultimately releases inside him. The bottom becomes yin and the top is yang and they are two men united in a perfect union of masculinity and femininity.

Anal sex is key, because it is the most intimate act two men can share, as well as the most fitting way for a cockfight loser to submit to his rival, and for the rival to dominate and fill his bottom. As a true man, the winner of the fight’s sexual organ is his penis. The loser’s primary sexual organ is now his anus/rectum. The winner must always be the clearly masculine, dominant. It is totally inappropriate for a loser to try to command or control his top. Rather, a loser must revere and submit to his rival, and constantly be trying to please him because he has been humiliated and lost the cockfight.