Blog de Characi
Meetfighters Changed My Life
Its beeing a while since I wanted to tell you how this website completely changed my life, and now I feel that I am ready to tell how.
I always loved strenght, since when i was a little kid. Muscles, crushing scenes (like bearhugs), but couldnt understand about that, since I have never heard about it as a sexual thing. Well, internet came and i could find some stuff about it and realized i was into the wrestling and muscle worship fetish in a blog called bearhugger.net. After years reading it and getting very excited about the wrestling world they posted about meetfighters. Thats how my life changing started.
When i got in meetfighters it was a blast. A lot of hot guys into the same thing as me: wrestling, muscles, sadomasochism and domination. I felt that I belong here and stopped thinking how weird i was for liking this kind of stuff. Had my adventures, met the most handsome and hot guys i have ever seen. This website was heaven. Even if this is a very important thing, its not exactly how it changed my life.
Well, i am from a place in Rio, Brazil, very poor. Actually i used to starve sometimes, with a 7 people family i can say that money was a very big problem. Anyway, i knew that if I studied a lot and worked hard i would be able to get off this situation. So i did it. Studied chemistry and biology in the best latin america's university. Graduated in 2019, right before pandemics. Because of that i got unamployed and realized i would be in the same situation for very long. My dreams of meeting the world and the wonderfull places that i grew up watching on TV and books would have to wait some more, maybe a lot more. I was hopeless of getting a job due to pandemic and had no idea what i would do.
One day a guy came to me in this website and told me he wanted to watch me wrestling and asked for some videos, he would pay. I accepted, a very good oportunity to "survive" the pandemic. Well, when i got 4 videos i've decided to see if other people would like to watch it and oppened an instagram, twitter and OnlyF. Did all by myself: the content, marketing, etc. I had no idea what i was doing and if it would work, but due to the situation i had to try something. It was very hard, i was affraid of my family seeing the videos, friends... but i kept going.
People started to enjoy my content, other guys from the wrestling scene started to send me messages, i was growing in this industry. Guys that i grew up watching started to send me messages saying that they love my content, and suddenly... companies started to ask me to shoot. The same companies i used to see puctures and watch videos on the bearhugger website, when i was a child. It was so crazy... I started to travel to other countries to meet guys and companies from the wrestling scene, something that i thought i would NEVER be able to do. So I realized i could meet the world using wrestling and chase my goals with that. Poverty/starvation desapeared, intense adventures started, all because of this website.
I've been meeting wonderfull people, seeing incredible places that i would never be able to go, making my dreams comming true, all because of wrestling and this website.
I don't know if the owner of this website will read it, but you are a life changer. Thank you 🙂
scottwrestler (4)
10/24/2022 9:11 PMWhat a wonderful post! Thank you for sharing your story!
JJAllen (89 )
10/24/2022 9:11 PMThat is an awesome story man. So happy for you! Thanks for sharing this.
synxiec (75)
10/24/2022 9:13 PMIt has been fun journey to follow. What a wonderful thing to read.
MadTownWrestler (15)
10/24/2022 9:14 PMThat is awesome post. Thanks for sharing. So happy for you. I'm sure they will see this.
BeerbellyBill (4)
10/24/2022 9:32 PMGreat story friend. Good to here you have survived and you are thriving. Keep at it
Matt Larsen (118 )
10/24/2022 9:52 PMSo happy for you stud 😊
edscissors (31 )
10/24/2022 10:21 PMWhat a wonderful post, and what an eloquent endorsement of Meetfighters, our wonderful site. I've been following you for a long time, Characi, and it helps that you are always polite and actually reply to messages.
You deserve your success and it's great to learn how much Meetfighters (and now, I imagine, Watchfighters?) has helped you - as literal life-changers.
I know of others - including another Watchfighters channel based in Brazil, and one in the Ukraine - where what our sites do has been similarly life-changing.
Good luck to you, Characi - and keep scissoring!
wrstlarturo (82)
10/24/2022 10:33 PMVery genuine and inspiring testimony!
Thanks for sharing with us, Characi.
Hope the best for you!
wrestleclaw (82)
10/24/2022 10:34 PMAmazing story, good for you. Congratulations on the success, I am sure you will have much more.
young1man (13 )
10/24/2022 10:47 PMProud of you and your accomplishments such a touching story thanks for sharing.
luttefrance (37)
10/24/2022 11:02 PMoi cara que vida louca essa! vc e tao bonito e simpatico, merece todo successo
NorthPole (7)
10/24/2022 11:09 PMBig fan of you, man since I came across you!
Thank you for sharing!
joewrestler (160)
10/24/2022 11:10 PMGreat post! Thanks for sharing! Your happiness brings happiness to others :)
It's always good to give people a certain amount of grace and respect and not judge by what you see on a screen – we don't know where we come from and what we've been through.
drkovacs (1)
10/24/2022 11:41 PMDear friend! Thank you for the experience of reading your lines.
I was touched by your honesty.
I'm so sorry we live on another continent and there's no way I'll be able to hug you.
Dadjobber (0)
10/24/2022 11:48 PMThis is a great post. Thanks for sharing, perhaps the most important thing is you found you weren’t alone and lots of other guys like the same things as you. Love and live!
PA Wrestler (48 )
10/25/2022 12:05 AM😘❤️❤️💪🏼, keep up the great work man, I’m glad you’re seeing success and feeling good about yourself ❤️
PA Wrestler (48 )
10/25/2022 12:06 AMSending another comment. Sorry, hit down thumb before the save button.. 😓, did not mean to
edscissors (31 )
10/25/2022 12:20 AMYou've touched a nerve here at MF and it's great to see what a positive, affirming effect our site can have on its members.
I'm more than twice your age, Characi, and you probably can't imagine a life pre-internet.
Our Meetfighters site and its later adjuncts proved liberating for you - and I'm so pleased for you.
But for people my age, the internet itself has proved similarly liberating. Until I began to discover stuff online, I really had no idea that anyone else might share my mad predelictions. What? Other guys like "that" too? So enjoying "that" is, in fact, no big deal?
Thanks, again, for a great post. Hooray for us all!
Characi (79 )
10/25/2022 9:31 PM(In reply to this)
I love to know about different generation's issues in this wrestling community
Peter Hughes (65 )
10/25/2022 1:14 AMHow inspirational! It just goes to show you how the human spirit can survive with just the right encouragement and drive. You owe yourself a big pat on the back for being tenacious.
I'm here in Houston if you're ever available for a grapple and a meal. My treat!
PS: Shame on the people who down-voted this story! SMH...
Admin
10/25/2022 1:25 AMThank you for sharing your story!
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Posts like this are very motivating and recharging. Thank you 🙂
Characi (79 )
10/25/2022 9:29 PM(In reply to this)
You are more important than you think 🥰
Reecer (4)
10/25/2022 1:45 AMUr story is truly motivating. Thank u for sharing with us. Keep ROLLIN!!
G8ratlarge (59)
10/25/2022 3:29 AMVery cool! Thanks for sharing! You are an inspiration! 😊👍🏻
newstravel (273)
10/25/2022 8:26 AMFor all those reading this life story, I will tell you that all is true because I know this wrestler for quite sometime and he is just great guy not only wrestling but in life too. Thank you man for being brave and sharing your history with this wrestling community, wish you great new experiences
See you soon
Characi (79 )
10/25/2022 9:30 PM(In reply to this)
Miss you! Thanks!
wrestler ffm (15)
10/25/2022 8:46 AMMy respect for Characi which I would like to express with this. Not everyone dares to reveal their life so openly. I hope your wishes come true in life. I would love to wrestle with you too, but I live in Germany and have no idea if our paths will ever cross.
All the best to you again.
TakeThePunchesAI (13)
10/25/2022 12:22 PMOh hey man, I didn't realize this was you, Dio, lol. I randomly messaged you on twitter some days ago. I don't recall someone on here sharing a story like that, really glad you shared it because it touches on a really important message that I've realized in life. The greatest success and fulfillment lies in doing what you enjoy, the things that we force ourselves to do, it's like the universe knows it and blocks us for our benefit even though it's very inconvenient, lol. But once you come in alignment of that thing that gives you joy, it's like everything is opened up for you. It looks like you are in the midst of that so thank you again for sharing your story and I'm sure you're in inspiration to somebody and don't even realize it.
Characi (79 )
10/25/2022 9:32 PM(In reply to this)
I've learned that life is unpredictable, and thats awesome. Whats going to happen next? Idk, but i am excited
El Talo (19)
10/25/2022 1:24 PMSawubona, até lacrimejei com o relato; não desmereço a janela que o Meet Figthers abre aos usuários, todavia, me entristeço ao saber que a educação formal, no Brasil, garante menos oportunidades em contrapartida à sexualidade acessível e universal!
WreslATL (98 )
10/25/2022 2:55 PMParabéns!!!!!
RossyRoss (14)
10/25/2022 3:30 PMGreat story
Making money from doing what you love– what could be better?
roughouser (15)
10/25/2022 4:03 PMYou're awesome!
loco (26)
10/25/2022 7:05 PMLove it! ❤️
latinherojobber (33)
10/25/2022 7:44 PMWhat a nice life experience because of the love for wrestling! Keep going
mainewrestlingchub (33)
10/25/2022 8:12 PMGreat story! I'm a fan of your work and like to know the back story and love hearing of your success and being able to thrive through the pandemic! Keep doing what you do and enjoy it!
Brown Bomber (151)
10/25/2022 10:34 PMI am glad you are here. Perhaps one day we c an meet and you can trample me with your hot bare feet.
Shoot (16 )
10/26/2022 12:06 AMSometimes life throws u a gift when u least expect it.
musclecrusher1 (0)
10/26/2022 1:56 AMAlways be true to your original plan also, this a means to the end
Jiuliano-Jitsu (4)
10/26/2022 2:50 AMVocê tem um corpo espetacular, perfeito para lutar. Já assisti a algumas lutas suas, mas estou na expectativa de vê-lo numa luta verdadeiramente competitiva, ao estilo submission wrestling, sem elementos de fetiche ou pro. Talvez devesse considerar lutar para o Movimus Wrestling, por exemplo. Estive pensando, e dentre os lutadores mais recentes daquele site, acho que você seria um bom match para Paul Castellano e Tanner Martin. Realmente acho que você deveria procurá-los e fazer isso acontecer. Ouvi dizer que eles pagam todas as despesas.
wrestle46 (8)
10/26/2022 7:45 AMGreat story. Meetfighters is a great site. I’ve been on here a fair while and I don’t want to go.
All the best. Your a handsome young man. If you come to Australia let’s wrestle.
Scott😀💪
SalzPeter (117 )
10/26/2022 8:55 AMVery touching post and hope many men around the world can access this site to discover the joys of meeting others who share the same pleasure.
Mimousse (6)
10/26/2022 11:46 AMBelles vidéos beau lutteur avec le plaisir de suivre ds le monde de la lutte
Swiss-Fighter (133)
10/27/2022 4:54 AMGreat story, even I know part of it, its still amazing to read and Im super happy for u.
Very glad we connected and meet and of course wrestled (and u saw your first snowfall😍)
Stay as humble and stay like u are and u will get very far.
see u very soon again
😘
Characi (79 )
10/27/2022 9:05 PM(In reply to this)
Seeing snow for the first time was one of the most amazing moments this websit gave to me. Also because of you, of course. I am sure you will show me a lot of new other things too!
wrestlinaddict (74)
10/28/2022 2:52 AMThis was a very nice story but also a quite sad one. No one should ever have to face hunger and unfortunately its a very common problem in many places. I am glad you managed to find a community that accepts you and that allowed you to explore your passion and work on something you enjoy.
Wish you the best of lucks man!
LondonHeel (4)
10/29/2022 5:18 PMWhat a great post, very inspirational. So sorry you had so much adversity when you were young but it's really good to see that with the help of MF you've turned things around. Well done for your hard work and thank you for your contributions to this site and the others - watchfighter, BG, and I'm sure, more to come! I'm so pleased for you and that it's making you happy and letting you enjoy your life ("seeing snow for the first time" - wonderful.)
To the future - may it get even better :)
mochablk (23)
10/30/2022 5:47 PMAn extremely uplifting story young man!! It shows that you're resourceful and wanted it!! I hope alot more guys read this and take heed!!
TacoDad (1)
11/02/2022 1:52 PMThank you for sharing such an inspiring story. All the best in life is still in front of you!
wrestlingfan (1)
11/04/2022 1:16 PMThank you so much for sharing your life with us. For me you are the number one here, and I'm still dreaming about a match against you. :-) I wish that everything goes well for you, and even better. Take care!
amateurwrestler0187 (0)
11/04/2022 8:01 PMI know what you mean I grew up in the ghetto in milwaukee wisconsin usa and in chicago seeing dead bodies in allys and witnessing shootings everyday and seeing all kinds of stuff on the L trains in chicago I didn't money neither and didn't have meals everyday being a gay man on the westside of chicago was not easy at all it was dangerous and I also worked hard to make a life for myself and you should be proud of yourself to because of what we went though it made us to take on the real 🌎
Atlantis400 (22 )
11/06/2022 3:55 PMWhat an beautiful and amazing story. I wish you for the future only the best.
We have both the same motto "dream not your life, live you're dream" sometimes very hard but very nice when it's working
TacoDad (1)
11/06/2022 5:34 PM(In reply to this)
So true Atlantis 400, SO TRUE!!
Jenkins (4)
11/09/2022 8:58 PMNice post! You deserve all succes!!
👏👏👏👏👏
SushrutDesai (2 )
3/17/2023 7:32 AMYour expression is very genuine and comes from heart. Thank you for sharing honestly
Reecer (4)
3/17/2023 5:35 PMTruly great story. Thank u for sharing