I love being lifted. I am known as ballet boy on this site. I have met Stephen and Rosie in this site. They lifted me alot when l met them. They lifted me the way l wanted to be lited and they enjoyed it more than l did. They lifted me in the lifts l wanted done to me since l was a school boy, whuch l have being waiting ti have done to me, for over 35 years. It was a school boy dream come true for me. They lifted me off in wedgie lifts. Yes wedgies are a big turn on for me. They bounced me up and down in my dance thongs by wedging me off in the center of the ring. Thet even put me on the topbrope and firced me down in it and msde me rifecthe top rooe by wedgie biuncubg me uo and diwn in it. They made my butt cheeks shake and quiver. It was such a fantastic feeling .They also wedgied me off in lots of other different types of wedgie lifts. I even said l was being wedgieeeeeeeeeeeed off by them. I will soon be meeting Stephen again and he is goung ti get another woman to wedgie work me over. Her name is Kate. She is over 200 pounds in weight compared to my weight of a mere 60 pounds. She is three times my body size. She saw my video of me being wedgied off by Stephen and Rosie and is very interested in wedgie working me over in my ballet attire. She wants to wedgie carry me around by my dance thongs, as if l was her hand bag. In this wedgie lift position of having me carried like this you can imagine that my balls will be crushed down and my cock flattened, in my leotards and tights. She will even by jolting and jerking me up and down, as against her body, by my thongs, when wedgie carrying me around by my thongs, like a hand bag. My ultimate dream would be to be surrounded by guys and girls in a wrestling ring and wedhie bounced up and down, in the centre of the ring, by my leotards and tights, for all the audience to see what is happening to me and that the audience is chanting Wedgie him, Wedgie him, Wedgie wedgie wedgie Balletboy - Wedgieeeeeeeeee ! I would also love to attend a ballet class surrounded by lots of ballerinas and be used as their ballet dance lifting partner and be lifted off the ground by each and every ballerina one by one, so they know what a male dancer has to go through when lifting a female dancer. I would then love to be surrounded by all the ballerinas and be wedgie lifted off the ground, by my leotards and tights, to the extent whereby l feel the material of my leotards and tights, in my throat, from all the wedgies l am getting. I would lovee to be also doing ballet arm poses when being lifted - yum yum. I would also love to be in a class full of male ballet dancers and be standing in the centre of the studio, facing the mirrors and allow all the ballet guys to take turns to lift me off the ground like a ballerina, dressed my leotards and tights, tutus and leg warmers and be used as a ballerina lifting doll. So if there is or there are any guys or even girls, living in London or Essex, intetested in wedging me off in my gymnastic leotards or ballet tights, please feel free to message me for a great wedgie bouncing lift in my leotards amd tights, to the point where l am turned into a proper ballerina in my leotards and tights, from all the wedgie lifts l am getting !
Very true, but the thing is, that liftee's weight is directly proportional to the safety and variety of positions their weight can be held and carried. That variety is the "funs" of L & C funs.
For example, I lifted a person that weighs 140 (63kg), then invert him while off the ground, then walk him 50 ft down the hallway – with his head only inches from the ground – before righting him and lower him back to the ground.
That's something that highly unlikely to happen (impossible for me) with someone that weighs 200lb (90kg). The ability to control the weigh once lifted, is the most valuable part of L & C funs.
Lifting someone straight off the ground only constitutes a single static vertical lift. Not much fun in that, is it?
I get it, and you're not the first to make that observation. I had a former co-worker that was 5'4/150 and was able to lift me too. Thing is, it wasn't a stable lift, as I needed to remain completely still, otherwise, he'd lose his balance and drop me.
There's a dramatic difference from a straight lift and a controlled lift. The "fun" of L&C comes from the control and the amount and degree of manipulation of the body once its been lifted. In other words, now that you have the person lifted, what can you do to make it fun?
I've never seen any variety under these conditions, since the foundation has to weigh more (or be anchored down) than the weight it supports. Have you?
That would be more of a challenge lift, and not one just about strength, but about leverage as well. As the liftee gets taller, the more unstable things becomes as you raise them.
One reason why I hate being lifted by much shorter lifters is the relative height makes me way too top heavy. The slightest movement will send us tumbling over with my head and face being the first thing to hit the ground. (Yes, been there, done that)
Still, there are a lot of guys that are more than capable and willing to preform that lift repeatedly. It just requires a lot more concentration and care for safety.
As for the gorilla press, you're going to need a strongman or bodybuilder for that one. Again, a question of stability.
You can always help by practicing keeping your body as straight and rigid as possible during the lift. Something that helps in virtually any lift. Even when its not nearly as necessary.
Isn't it also great for a strong lifter to show off his strength with a lighter liftee? To show off what you can do with a human body...to hold him in every position possible...:-)
For a liftee the most important thing is, that the lifter can easily pick you up and maybe even hold you in a position for a while...I think a liftee-weight of70 kilos should be the most, so the chances for the liftee are the biggest to find a capable lifter..;-)
There is the back and forth challenge of the lift where one or two opponents perform straight lifts as part of a test of strength. Then there is the lift focused predominantly toward the liftee who request to enjoy the sustained life periods and multiple position lifts.
That's the Type 2 L&C. I get some of that too (although more rare), and derive just as much satisfaction from that challenge – albeit in the opposite direction – as I do the liftee challenge. This kind of lift is generally less about fine control and lift movements and more about the intensity, brute force, strength, and dominance. I classify these movements under Tests of Strength.
That's a tough call. People who enjoy being lifted come in all shapes and sizes. Bigger guys will find it harder to find capable lifters. Though I've also found that some lifters only prefer lifting heavier guys. The key is finding a good match up who happens to be in the same city :)
Now you see that's a different type of life in my experience. For the bigger/heavier guys it would be more of a lift & carry challenge under strength tests where you trade lifts to see who can hold out the longest. But in generally big guys hate being lifted. At least I never met one that asked for it.
"As a 140 lb guy, most lifters can lift and carry me all kinds of ways for long periods of time. "
This is where my focus was. If you expect this from a session then, it might be to your advantage not to weigh 200+ lbs. As a liftee, your weight class will dictate how much entertainment you get out of your session.
On the other hand, a lifer might be only interested in weight and able to life twice that but for completely different reasons.
I see these small vs large sessions as an entertainment side of wrestling where the focus in on lift variety for the liftee.
It is a feat of strength for the lifter, but not a all the same as the exchange from another similar size/weight opponent where there is a back and forth L&C focused more on a strongest man challenge between the two.
Yeah I like variety. Iām game for just about any lift a lifter wants to try. It can also be like teamwork in some cases... where I position my weight to make it easier.
A back and forth challenge would be fun for me to watch!
Long limbs help to make the carry sessions pretty entertaining, and if the liftee is not too heavy I can be pretty creative. I used to do this inverted hallway quick walk.
I'm gradual, and try to stay open so my opponent don't hesitate to let me know what is acceptable, and what is not. So far, I've never gotten a single complaint from any smaller guys.
On the other hand, big guys, are the polar opposite. I try to avoid anything spontaneous with them. I have many stories.
As often is the case, āit dependsā. For me, I like up to 160lbs where I can do extended ots carries, bear hugs scoop carries (like teeing up a body slam), piggy backs and across the shoulder rack with squats.
If I or the lifter are looking for an overhead gorilla press, it has to be 120lbs or under. ;)
The point is to be safe and in control so neither person injures them selves while both get off on the fetish/fantasy. :)
My preference would be for over head 100kg/221lbs or less and others lifts would be more of a shape than weight issue. Like 200kg/440lbs easy to lift unless you canāt reach around it.
Balletboy (0)
8/23/2023 6:25 AMI love being lifted. I am known as ballet boy on this site. I have met Stephen and Rosie in this site. They lifted me alot when l met them. They lifted me the way l wanted to be lited and they enjoyed it more than l did. They lifted me in the lifts l wanted done to me since l was a school boy, whuch l have being waiting ti have done to me, for over 35 years. It was a school boy dream come true for me. They lifted me off in wedgie lifts. Yes wedgies are a big turn on for me. They bounced me up and down in my dance thongs by wedging me off in the center of the ring. Thet even put me on the topbrope and firced me down in it and msde me rifecthe top rooe by wedgie biuncubg me uo and diwn in it. They made my butt cheeks shake and quiver. It was such a fantastic feeling .They also wedgied me off in lots of other different types of wedgie lifts. I even said l was being wedgieeeeeeeeeeeed off by them. I will soon be meeting Stephen again and he is goung ti get another woman to wedgie work me over. Her name is Kate. She is over 200 pounds in weight compared to my weight of a mere 60 pounds. She is three times my body size. She saw my video of me being wedgied off by Stephen and Rosie and is very interested in wedgie working me over in my ballet attire. She wants to wedgie carry me around by my dance thongs, as if l was her hand bag. In this wedgie lift position of having me carried like this you can imagine that my balls will be crushed down and my cock flattened, in my leotards and tights. She will even by jolting and jerking me up and down, as against her body, by my thongs, when wedgie carrying me around by my thongs, like a hand bag. My ultimate dream would be to be surrounded by guys and girls in a wrestling ring and wedhie bounced up and down, in the centre of the ring, by my leotards and tights, for all the audience to see what is happening to me and that the audience is chanting Wedgie him, Wedgie him, Wedgie wedgie wedgie Balletboy - Wedgieeeeeeeeee ! I would also love to attend a ballet class surrounded by lots of ballerinas and be used as their ballet dance lifting partner and be lifted off the ground by each and every ballerina one by one, so they know what a male dancer has to go through when lifting a female dancer. I would then love to be surrounded by all the ballerinas and be wedgie lifted off the ground, by my leotards and tights, to the extent whereby l feel the material of my leotards and tights, in my throat, from all the wedgies l am getting. I would lovee to be also doing ballet arm poses when being lifted - yum yum. I would also love to be in a class full of male ballet dancers and be standing in the centre of the studio, facing the mirrors and allow all the ballet guys to take turns to lift me off the ground like a ballerina, dressed my leotards and tights, tutus and leg warmers and be used as a ballerina lifting doll. So if there is or there are any guys or even girls, living in London or Essex, intetested in wedging me off in my gymnastic leotards or ballet tights, please feel free to message me for a great wedgie bouncing lift in my leotards amd tights, to the point where l am turned into a proper ballerina in my leotards and tights, from all the wedgie lifts l am getting !
Daniel Erwin (4)
1/27/2023 1:25 PMI don't think there's a preference of weight more of what positions the lifter can handle
Juggernaut (0)
8/22/2023 5:31 AM(In reply to this)
Very true, but the thing is, that liftee's weight is directly proportional to the safety and variety of positions their weight can be held and carried. That variety is the "funs" of L & C funs.
For example, I lifted a person that weighs 140 (63kg), then invert him while off the ground, then walk him 50 ft down the hallway – with his head only inches from the ground – before righting him and lower him back to the ground.
That's something that highly unlikely to happen (impossible for me) with someone that weighs 200lb (90kg). The ability to control the weigh once lifted, is the most valuable part of L & C funs.
Lifting someone straight off the ground only constitutes a single static vertical lift. Not much fun in that, is it?
Daniel Erwin (4)
8/23/2023 6:28 AM(In reply to this)
Yea but also should be what both the liftees favorite lifts are and if lifter is ok and strong enough im 190 and have been carried for a while
Juggernaut (0)
8/24/2023 5:38 AM(In reply to this)
I get it, and you're not the first to make that observation. I had a former co-worker that was 5'4/150 and was able to lift me too. Thing is, it wasn't a stable lift, as I needed to remain completely still, otherwise, he'd lose his balance and drop me.
There's a dramatic difference from a straight lift and a controlled lift. The "fun" of L&C comes from the control and the amount and degree of manipulation of the body once its been lifted. In other words, now that you have the person lifted, what can you do to make it fun?
I've never seen any variety under these conditions, since the foundation has to weigh more (or be anchored down) than the weight it supports. Have you?
Jason22 (1)
1/27/2023 7:49 AMI like being lifted and I'm a muscular guy who is more on the heavier side with muscle weight (200 lbs, and have gotten up to 220lbs)
Easywrestler I (0)
1/18/2023 2:35 PMIām 75kg and lots of women have lifted me so many more men could probably lift me provided they donāt have a back problem
Kiwicrusher (4)
6/10/2020 6:15 AMI weigh 215lbs and havent found anyone who is strong enough to get me on their shoulders and squat me or gorilla press me
ZeakMartin (71)
1/27/2023 12:04 AM(In reply to this)
Really? I recently lifted a 210 lbs guy and I'm just 132
Easywrestler I (0)
1/28/2023 6:06 PM(In reply to this)
Very impressive - i love being lifted by someone smaller than me, very sexy
ZeakMartin (71)
1/28/2023 7:00 PM(In reply to this)
Thank you! Let me know if you are ever in Toronto, CAN. Would be fun to test each other's strength through lift and carry in multiple ways.
Easywrestler I (0)
1/29/2023 9:27 AM(In reply to this)
Yes, it would be great fun but Iām very unlikely to be in Canada anytime soon, unfortunately.
Juggernaut (0)
6/10/2020 6:57 AM(In reply to this)
That would be more of a challenge lift, and not one just about strength, but about leverage as well. As the liftee gets taller, the more unstable things becomes as you raise them.
One reason why I hate being lifted by much shorter lifters is the relative height makes me way too top heavy. The slightest movement will send us tumbling over with my head and face being the first thing to hit the ground. (Yes, been there, done that)
Still, there are a lot of guys that are more than capable and willing to preform that lift repeatedly. It just requires a lot more concentration and care for safety.
As for the gorilla press, you're going to need a strongman or bodybuilder for that one. Again, a question of stability.
You can always help by practicing keeping your body as straight and rigid as possible during the lift. Something that helps in virtually any lift. Even when its not nearly as necessary.
docchuki (0)
2/09/2020 6:14 AMIsn't it also great for a strong lifter to show off his strength with a lighter liftee? To show off what you can do with a human body...to hold him in every position possible...:-)
docchuki (0)
1/09/2020 7:43 PMFor a liftee the most important thing is, that the lifter can easily pick you up and maybe even hold you in a position for a while...I think a liftee-weight of70 kilos should be the most, so the chances for the liftee are the biggest to find a capable lifter..;-)
Juggernaut (0)
1/10/2020 10:15 PM(In reply to this)
I see two types:
There is the back and forth challenge of the lift where one or two opponents perform straight lifts as part of a test of strength. Then there is the lift focused predominantly toward the liftee who request to enjoy the sustained life periods and multiple position lifts.
Wii (28)
1/07/2020 5:39 PMI'm more into lifting heavier mates because of the challenge and seeing how much I'm able to handle them!
Juggernaut (0)
6/12/2020 8:34 AM(In reply to this)
That's the Type 2 L&C. I get some of that too (although more rare), and derive just as much satisfaction from that challenge – albeit in the opposite direction – as I do the liftee challenge. This kind of lift is generally less about fine control and lift movements and more about the intensity, brute force, strength, and dominance. I classify these movements under Tests of Strength.
mattz4fun (639)
1/07/2020 5:24 AMThat's a tough call. People who enjoy being lifted come in all shapes and sizes. Bigger guys will find it harder to find capable lifters. Though I've also found that some lifters only prefer lifting heavier guys. The key is finding a good match up who happens to be in the same city :)
Juggernaut (0)
6/05/2020 8:57 AM(In reply to this)
Now you see that's a different type of life in my experience. For the bigger/heavier guys it would be more of a lift & carry challenge under strength tests where you trade lifts to see who can hold out the longest. But in generally big guys hate being lifted. At least I never met one that asked for it.
froliftee (15)
1/07/2020 4:44 AMItās different for each lifter in my experience.
As a 140 lb guy, most lifters can lift and carry me all kinds of ways for long periods of time.
Juggernaut (0)
1/10/2020 3:43 AM(In reply to this)
"As a 140 lb guy, most lifters can lift and carry me all kinds of ways for long periods of time. "
This is where my focus was. If you expect this from a session then, it might be to your advantage not to weigh 200+ lbs. As a liftee, your weight class will dictate how much entertainment you get out of your session.
On the other hand, a lifer might be only interested in weight and able to life twice that but for completely different reasons.
froliftee (15)
1/12/2020 8:40 PM(In reply to this)
Itās certainly motivation for me to stay in descent shape. I enjoy long sessions but I still appreciate any length of time
Thatās true... some lifters prefer a challenge where just me would be too easy. They could try two liftees at once.
Juggernaut (0)
1/14/2020 1:14 AM(In reply to this)
I see these small vs large sessions as an entertainment side of wrestling where the focus in on lift variety for the liftee.
It is a feat of strength for the lifter, but not a all the same as the exchange from another similar size/weight opponent where there is a back and forth L&C focused more on a strongest man challenge between the two.
froliftee (15)
1/18/2020 4:35 AM(In reply to this)
Yeah I like variety. Iām game for just about any lift a lifter wants to try. It can also be like teamwork in some cases... where I position my weight to make it easier.
A back and forth challenge would be fun for me to watch!
Juggernaut (0)
6/05/2020 8:47 AM(In reply to this)
Long limbs help to make the carry sessions pretty entertaining, and if the liftee is not too heavy I can be pretty creative. I used to do this inverted hallway quick walk.
froliftee (15)
6/07/2020 8:48 PM(In reply to this)
Thatās really cool. I think as a tall slim liftee, my weight being spread out makes it easy too.
Juggernaut (0)
6/08/2020 8:48 AM(In reply to this)
Actually not in this case. The shorter torso is more compact, and therefore, more stable over all varieties of L&C.
That said, for most guys designated as lifters, tend to be able to offer the same or nearly the same variety without too much compromise.
Its also important to consider the relative height of the lifter over the liftee. I've experience many examples, but I try to keep it short.
froliftee (15)
6/09/2020 2:17 AM(In reply to this)
Interesting. I also tend to adjust my body to make it easier, but the stronger lifters I've met didn't need me to.
I personally don't have a height preference. Most were the same height, but even the shorter guys found lifting me easier than they expected.
docchuki (0)
6/08/2020 8:01 PM(In reply to this)
You sound like a real expert in this...;-) ItĀ“s usually very hard for a liftee to find anyone, who knows what it is all about..;-)
Juggernaut (0)
6/09/2020 6:05 AM(In reply to this)
I'm gradual, and try to stay open so my opponent don't hesitate to let me know what is acceptable, and what is not. So far, I've never gotten a single complaint from any smaller guys.
On the other hand, big guys, are the polar opposite. I try to avoid anything spontaneous with them. I have many stories.
lestergris (0)
6/09/2020 4:28 PM(In reply to this)
Well, I would love to hear them and I think that most of us who like someone like you to lift us up :)
Juggernaut (0)
1/06/2020 8:52 AMWhat is the typical amount a liftee should be expected to weigh?
FantasyHeel (1)
6/07/2020 10:56 PM(In reply to this)
As often is the case, āit dependsā. For me, I like up to 160lbs where I can do extended ots carries, bear hugs scoop carries (like teeing up a body slam), piggy backs and across the shoulder rack with squats.
If I or the lifter are looking for an overhead gorilla press, it has to be 120lbs or under. ;)
The point is to be safe and in control so neither person injures them selves while both get off on the fetish/fantasy. :)
docchuki (0)
6/08/2020 7:33 PM(In reply to this)
That sounds great to me..;-)
FantasyHeel (1)
6/08/2020 5:07 PM(In reply to this)
*If I or the ālifteeā I meant to say :)
HH200kg (15)
1/08/2020 11:54 AM(In reply to this)
My preference would be for over head 100kg/221lbs or less and others lifts would be more of a shape than weight issue. Like 200kg/440lbs easy to lift unless you canāt reach around it.