Is any member over here came in contact with any Indian wrestlers 50+ or met any Indian older men 50+ who is interested in wrestling ? I am an Indian guy & I have never seen any Indian olderguy 50+ in this site except one member. So why can't u members try to encourage Indian oldermen to join this site whom u people know.
This is not related to this blog, but I am just writing over here to bring it ur notice.
I think it does matter because you can clearly see a distinct separation between certain types of men here but attraction doesn't necessarily have to be entirely physical. Some guys here look like Greek gods and have very less than desirable attitudes while others maybe not in the best shape or less attractive have hearts of gold.
I often compare seeking matches here with speed dating and just as when I look for certain things I like in a woman, I seek for certain things I want in an opponent: Size is very important to me now because I am a smaller man, wrestling bigger guys might result in injury, even involuntary. I also like an even match; not just getting squashed.
Age and Health are relevant. I don't want to risk a medical emergency with someone during a wrestling scenario.
Skill is less relevant since normally a skilled guy can usually adjust for the sake of the match.
and lastly Appearance because it's undeniably the initial point of interest. I cannot see your inner qualities walking down the street. I have to talk to you first. Its why we have profile pictures. Men are visual creatures.
so yes, to wrap up I do believe attraction plays. role in choosing opponents.
Most pretty boys will wrestle pretty boys. Most muscle will wrestle muscle and some less fortunate will wrestle anyone that will have them
Good point. When people choose friends they typically look alike, or at least have some similar physical characteristics. I care nothing about facial features (although some hair styles can interfere with the match). I predominantly look for opponent with similar height/weight/interests/etc. Of those, height is most important.
It's really just a guess unless one did a poll and there's little chance that more than 5% of people would respond to such a poll. I think everyone is selective to a degree. Those who want competition will choose opponents based on the likelihood of having a competitive match. Those who want fun will choose based on the odds of it being a good time. Some may meet almost anyone provided you go to them. And there are those who don't have time for anyone who isn't exactly what they're looking for. The more difficult it is to meet anyone the less choosy most people become.
Connection matters for me. Establishing a rapport. Getting to know the person via messaging. Gaining a level of familiarity, understanding if we are each seeking the same sort of wrestling session. Understanding what motivates his wrestling, are those motivations compatible with mine? Physical size plays a role in this, since I am big. Age does as well, since I’m older. Either one of those might make for odd match-ups, but they have taken place successfully, so are not rejected out of hand. The face/image etc contribute to the image of the person I’m messaging, to the connection. It is part of it, might be the hook, but is never enough to sustain things through to meeting.
I'm new to this site still, been on here a lil over a month now. Some cool people on here, in the comments, in the DMs, lol. I want to first say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So when I say this I'm not trying to put one person over the other. So when you guys choose matches with guys on here, does attraction matter? Does it have to be somebody with solid abs, or with a plunging gut? Whatever attracts you, does that matter when choosing a match? Do they have to have a pretty face? A baby face? A rugged face? Just curious.
Kusthipatu (8 )
12/27/2020 3:40 PMIs any member over here came in contact with any Indian wrestlers 50+ or met any Indian older men 50+ who is interested in wrestling ? I am an Indian guy & I have never seen any Indian olderguy 50+ in this site except one member. So why can't u members try to encourage Indian oldermen to join this site whom u people know.
This is not related to this blog, but I am just writing over here to bring it ur notice.
doyouevenwrestle (61 )
12/24/2020 2:53 PMI think it does matter because you can clearly see a distinct separation between certain types of men here but attraction doesn't necessarily have to be entirely physical. Some guys here look like Greek gods and have very less than desirable attitudes while others maybe not in the best shape or less attractive have hearts of gold.
I often compare seeking matches here with speed dating and just as when I look for certain things I like in a woman, I seek for certain things I want in an opponent: Size is very important to me now because I am a smaller man, wrestling bigger guys might result in injury, even involuntary. I also like an even match; not just getting squashed.
Age and Health are relevant. I don't want to risk a medical emergency with someone during a wrestling scenario.
Skill is less relevant since normally a skilled guy can usually adjust for the sake of the match.
and lastly Appearance because it's undeniably the initial point of interest. I cannot see your inner qualities walking down the street. I have to talk to you first. Its why we have profile pictures. Men are visual creatures.
so yes, to wrap up I do believe attraction plays. role in choosing opponents.
Most pretty boys will wrestle pretty boys. Most muscle will wrestle muscle and some less fortunate will wrestle anyone that will have them
Juggernaut (0)
2/18/2022 2:44 PM(In reply to this)
Good point. When people choose friends they typically look alike, or at least have some similar physical characteristics. I care nothing about facial features (although some hair styles can interfere with the match). I predominantly look for opponent with similar height/weight/interests/etc. Of those, height is most important.
BamaJDon41 (10 )
12/23/2020 5:48 AMIt's really just a guess unless one did a poll and there's little chance that more than 5% of people would respond to such a poll. I think everyone is selective to a degree. Those who want competition will choose opponents based on the likelihood of having a competitive match. Those who want fun will choose based on the odds of it being a good time. Some may meet almost anyone provided you go to them. And there are those who don't have time for anyone who isn't exactly what they're looking for. The more difficult it is to meet anyone the less choosy most people become.
Jedi (38)
12/22/2020 4:37 PMConnection matters for me. Establishing a rapport. Getting to know the person via messaging. Gaining a level of familiarity, understanding if we are each seeking the same sort of wrestling session. Understanding what motivates his wrestling, are those motivations compatible with mine? Physical size plays a role in this, since I am big. Age does as well, since I’m older. Either one of those might make for odd match-ups, but they have taken place successfully, so are not rejected out of hand. The face/image etc contribute to the image of the person I’m messaging, to the connection. It is part of it, might be the hook, but is never enough to sustain things through to meeting.
TakeThePunchesAI (13)
12/22/2020 2:35 PMI'm new to this site still, been on here a lil over a month now. Some cool people on here, in the comments, in the DMs, lol. I want to first say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So when I say this I'm not trying to put one person over the other. So when you guys choose matches with guys on here, does attraction matter? Does it have to be somebody with solid abs, or with a plunging gut? Whatever attracts you, does that matter when choosing a match? Do they have to have a pretty face? A baby face? A rugged face? Just curious.